Jul 02
2007

where is heaven? how does heaven look like?

『the five people you meet in heaven』 (by mitch albom) gives the answers…

heaven is not a lush garden of eden but a place where your earthly life is explained to you by five people who were in it. those people may have been loved ones or distant strangers. yet each of them changed your path for ever

eddie dies for trying to save a little girl’s life. he meets 5 people in the heaven, who have came across his life and been waiting for him in the heaven…

each of the five people tells eddie some stories, and teaches him a lesson…

…excerpt from the book…

1st lesson - life and death

fairness doesn’t govern life and death…

all lives intersect. death doesn’t just take someone, it misses someone else. and in the small distance between being taken and being missed, lives are changed.

when lightning strikes a minute after you are gone, or an airplane crashes that you might have been on. when you colleague falls ill and you do not. we think such things are radom. but there is a balance to it. one withers, another grows…

2nd lesson - sacrifice

sacrifice, you made one. i made one. we all make them. but you were angry over yours. you kept thinking about what you lost.

sacrifice is a part of life. it’s supposed to be. it’s not something to regret. it’s something to aspire.

(when you did sacrifice), you lost something, but you gained something as well. you just don’t know it yet.

3rd lesson - forgiveness

holding anger is a poison. it eats you from inside. we think that hating is a weapon that attacks the person who harmed us. but hatred is a curved blade. and the harm we do, we do to ourselves.

4th lesson - lost love

lost love is still love. it takes a different form, that’s all. you cant see their smile or bring them food or tousle their hair or move them around a dance floor. but when those senses weaken, another heightens. memory. memory becomes your partner. you nurture it. you hold it. you dance with it.

life has to end. love doesn’t.

you made me love you
i didn’t want to do it
i didn’t want to do it…
you made me love you
and all the time you knew it
and all the time you knew it

5th lesson - meaning of life

everyone is part of this world. everyone has his meaning to exist in this world. everyone is worth something. whatever work you do, you are supposed to do. whereever you are… you are supposed to be

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a simple but very meaningful story… great book!!

who are the five people im going to meet in heaven??

Jun 06
2007

笑傲江湖

02:21pm Reading, 心情.随笔 Read 938 time(s) 6 Comments »

最近又在读金庸的武侠…

『飞雪连天射白鹿,笑书神侠倚碧鸳』

刚刚读完了『笑傲江湖』。这一部实在是我喜欢的作品,喜欢它仅次于『神雕侠侣』。

令狐冲算不上大侠,但他的义气和痴情,却是少有的。

摘下一段令狐冲眷恋小师妹的内心情愫:

小师妹就算不理我,不睬我,我每日只见她一面,纵然只见到她的背影,听到一句她的说话声音,也是好的。何况她又没不睬我。

Mar 20
2006

心牢

09:36pm Reading Read 1333 time(s) 2 Comments »

吃完午饭,在office打开新浪闲看。偶然发现了一篇小说,忙里偷闲看了几章。

小说叫『心牢』,写的是乡下穷大学生和一个女强人的姐弟恋,故事就从他捡到她的皮包开始。。。

心牢

写的还不错,是我喜欢的那种叙事方法。只是作者好像有点在自我意淫,穷学生和有钱的女老板,悬殊的身份,刻意的角色安排。还有狂晕的是新浪把它归类到『情色』小说里,纳闷中,哪里『情色』了?还是偶太不单纯了,看了太多XXX的东西,连『情色』的定义都不懂了?

http://club.book.sina.com.cn/yuanchuang/writing.php?wid=11483

还没读完,等不及要完整的读完它去看故事的结局。

终于看完了,小说前大半部,一直到水仙姐死的那块儿,写的很不错,看了挺感动的,后来有点多余和凌乱和拼凑的感觉,总体还是不错的。另外之前对作者人物角色的安排的看法,其实还是不对的,作者这样安排也的确是为了情节本身的需要。 --- updated on 21, March